Monthly Archives: December 2009

I Am An Emotional Creature

Famous First: Eve Ensler

Famous First: Eve Ensler

Eve Ensler was the first to reclaim February 14th as V-Day, a global movement to stop violence against women and girls. V-Day raises funds and awareness through annual benefit productions of Ms. Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues, which have been performed by college women nationwide, as well as by esteemed actors — Jane Fonda, Whoopi Goldberg, Idina Menzel, Glenn Close, Susan Sarandon, and Oprah Winfrey among them.

I Am An Emotional Creature - teen monologues

I Am An Emotional Creature - teen monologues

Now that The Vagina Monologues, published in 1996, are as old as a teenager, Ms. Ensler has fittingly made her latest masterpiece a collection of monologues called I Am An Emotional Creature: The Secret Life of Girls Around the World. Giving a reality check that is not at all condescending or misinformed, she captures the vulnerability of being a teen who is figuring out her desires and dreams — and in some cases, tragically dealing with abuse or lack of education.

The book, published by Villard, isn’t available until February 9th, but I was ecstatic to get my hands on a review copy. Below, a few of the best lines from the Epilogue, which is titled “A Manifesta to Young Women and Girls”:

Always fight back
Ask for it
Say you want it
Cherish your solitude
Take trains by yourself to places
you have never been
Sleep out alone under the stars
Learn how to drive a stick shift
Go so far away that you stop being afraid of
not coming back
Say no when you don’t want to do something
Say yes if your instincts are strong
even if everyone around you disagrees

Decide whether you want to be liked or admired
Decide if fitting in is more important than finding out
what you’re doing here

If someday the supporters of She’s the First could perform these monologues to raise money for girls’ education worldwide — much as The Vagina Monologues have for anti-violence programs — wouldn’t that be marvelous?


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Sponsor Spotlight: Temple University Student

When young women ask us how they can support She’s the First beyond spreading the viral PSA video or Facebooking us, we encourage them to collect small donations from a group of friends — it can all add up to a sponsorship for a girl. You may remember Monica Townsend setting the first example, by mobilizing her dorm behind a sponsorship. Now we have Stacy Lipson as further proof. She took the Temple University campus by storm!

Stacy Lipson, Temple University student & new sponsor

Stacy Lipson, Temple University student & new sponsor

Stacy’s Stats: Age 22, Temple University, Class of 2010, Journalism Major
What She Raised: $302.46
How She Did It: “First, I went around with with my friend Laura to collect small change. We stressed that any little bit counted, and ended up raising $50 just from collecting small change around the Temple University campus. Next, I planned a small benefit with a stand-up comedian and poet from the Philadelphia area at a local North Philadelphia pub and bar. From the benefit, we asked people attending to donate $5 as an entry-fee. We raised $252.46 from the one-day extravaganza.”
The Impact of $300: Stacy will pay a year’s tuition (including meal, uniform, and books) for a girl at the MCF Academy, opening in Liberia in Fall 2010 for orphaned and abandoned children.

"Give a Little" by Wendy Smith

"Give a Little" by Wendy Smith

We love that Stacy took the lead and believed in the power of small donations, which is exactly what the book I’m reading called “Give a Little: How your small donations can transform our world” is about. We encourage you to check out author Wendy Smith’s Facebook and Twitter pages for the book, pick up a copy to review her impressive research, and take Stacy’s real-life example for inspiration in your own community. The amazing members of the She’s the First network — spanning Nepal, Haiti, Uganda, West Timor, and more locations listed here in our directory — need your help!

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“A Gift That Will Help Change the World”

At She’s the First, you can sponsor a girl’s education in a developing country. The site’s directory of schools lists sponsorship programs that tell you exactly where and how you can help.

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Special Week for She's the First!

Ethopia5She’s the First had a record-setting series of good news this week!

  • On Wednesday, we won Mashable’s happiness contest! The Zappos.com #SharingHappiness $3,000 Shopping Spree Giveaway Contest asked people how they used the web to share happiness and spread social good. She’s the First Director Christen Brandt wrote the winning nomination:

“Use the web to give the gift of education! She’s the First is a directory of schools around the world where you can sponsor a girl’s education. It makes you feel happy to know you’re helping someone in need, and it of course brings happiness to the girls who get sponsorships.”

With her $3,000 prize at zappos.com, she’s chosen to buy shoes for girls from schools in the She’s the First global network!

  • IHeartDaily.com, our favorite e-mail newsletter for teens and young women, spotlighted our holiday campaign in today’s e-mail!
  • The ypulse newsletter (the leaders in youth marketing) gave us a shout out today!
  • A fabulous executive editor we know sponsored a girl’s education as a gift to her entire magazine staff!
  • On Monday, we welcomed our first Latin American program to the network: Give Haiti Hope | Haiti Outreach Program. For as little as $100 a year, you can send a girl to primary school with a uniform, supplies, and a warm meal. (Much needed: The enrollment rate for primary school in Haiti is 67% — with less than 30% reaching 6th grade.)
  • We met Goods for Good‘s Founder & Executive Director, Melissa Kushner, and Communications Associate, Natalie Bonifede! Goods for Goods is a role model nonprofit of ours, which collects surplus goods (fabric from Ralph Lauren’s clothing manufacturer, pens from pharmaceutical companies, for example) and distributes them to students in need in Africa. We love their twitterific holiday campaign (watch for the #20000 hash tag) to help 20,000 orphans and vulnerable children receive new uniforms — each funded by only a $1 donation.
  • We’re meeting the Harvard-schooled founders of hercampus.com, an amazing new site of style & substance, on Sunday!
  • We’re at 748 Facebook fans and 6,102 YouTube plays…and counting!

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Holiday Gift for the Gafni Family – and a Girl in Rwanda!

Noa Gafni

Noa Gafni

Noa was the first who responded to our campaign to gift an education for a girl to her loved ones for the holidays! The Gafni Family received a special card from the She’s the First team acknowledging the gift, and we invited Noa to share some words on why it does feel better to give than to receive.

“I donated to one of the She’s the First partner programs as a Hanukkah gift to my family. It was perfect way to pay tribute to what the holiday season is all about. Even though we are in a recession, we have so much to be grateful for. Things we take for granted, such as schooling, are actually a privilege that is out of reach for far too many young women. My parents worked hard instill in my sister and me the value of an education. We were taught that it would be our key to success. I wanted to show them my gratitude by paying it forward. And I’m sure they will appreciate it much more than a Molton Brown gift set.”

– Noa Gafni, @queenbee101

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Give the Gift of Education!

She's the First Holiday Gift Idea

Special thanks to Dianna Porter for her design!

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Mariette DiChristina: First female editor-in-chief of Scientific American

Mariette DiChristina, editor-in-chief of Scientific American

Mariette DiChristina, editor-in-chief of Scientific American

Last Thursday, Scientific American appointed Mariette DiChristina to be the first female editor-in-chief of the magazine. A science journalist for over 20 years, she was also the first to launch the acclaimed Scientific American Mind in 2004, and is currently the president of the National Association of Science Writers. Having accomplished such a groundbreaking “first,” She’s the First snagged an interview to find out how she did it.

Why do you think it’s taken this long for a woman to be the editor-in-chief of Scientific American?

I really think it’s just accident, honestly, at this point. Once upon a time—Scientific American being 164 years old—I would never have expected its first editor-in-chief to be a woman, or its second, or maybe even its third. But after a certain point I think its just a matter of somebody rising to that position where they had the right skill set, and then the right opportunity came along, because as you also probably saw, I’m only the eighth editor-in-chief. They haven’t had that many opportunities to have any editor-in-chief of Scientific American.

Have you had a strong female mentor or role model who has motivated you in your career?

Oh yes, one I can think of in particular. At Popular Science, I had about six different titles over 14 years. I started on the copy desk, which is checking grammar and spelling for the magazine, but my dream was to write features. There was one senior editor who was just so nice to me. I remember the key thing she did for me was she taught me how to read a patent. Because I would be trying to cover some technology, some mysterious heating ventilation air conditioning system let’s say, and I didn’t know how to puzzle it out, and she showed me how to go through it and then helped me make it interesting. That was key for me, this wonderful woman. I think none of us really get along in life without having some kind of mentoring, and I enjoy it myself now that I have that privileged position.

What’s the most important leadership lesson you’ve learned?
One thing I think any leader needs to understand is there is no cookie-cutter, one-size-fits-all response for your staff, or for anybody you work with for that matter. People are individuals and they have individual needs and individual gifts, and when I think about how to coach them—because I do think being a good boss means coaching—I think about what are their strengths and what are the areas where they can improve, so I can help them reach the next level of their career.

How can we encourage more girls to be comfortable pursuing science?
I might be wrong about this, but I have a suspicion that part of it is cultural, and part of it is an artifact of the different generations. Just like how I would have never expected the first editor of Scientific American to be a woman back in 1845, now I think those opportunities are more open, but sometimes there are practical aspects that are difficult. As we as a culture get more conversed about flexible solutions for women who are juggling, lets say small children or other things, it will be easier for them, and it will be easier for girls to see these positions in science or elsewhere as something they can achieve.

For my own part, I have two daughters, and neither one of them think there’s any obstacle in their path for whatever they want to do. There’s a generational shift between people who are our mothers, and people who are our daughters, with what they will think and do. One solution is to keep encouraging them to believe that they can do anything they want, and we can continue to try and remove the obstacles to their success.

What was a key decision you made in life that kept you on this path and led you to be the “first” you are today?
Well, there was a male college professor that I had when I was an undergraduate sophomore, and he called me up after class and said, what are you majoring in? At the time I had no idea. All I knew was that I was taking Journalism 101 and having the best time of my life. I loved finding information, I loved writing it out in a story, and sharing that. I think every good journalist has some piece of a teacher in him or her, and I’m one of those people. When he asked me what I wanted to do, and I didn’t know, he pointed his finger at me like Uncle Sam and said, ‘You are great, and you should be a journalist.’ And at that moment it occurred to me that I could have a lot of fun and do something I felt very passionate about. That if I wanted something, I could do it, and it didn’t have to be somebody else’s idea of what a job would be, but my own.

Are you the first at anything else, on any scale?
Well I’m the oldest child in my family, so I’m the first in that sense (laughs). I’m also the first in my immediate family to get a college degree, since they came to the US. My family all came around the turn of the century from Italy. Some were doctors in Italy, but it took a little while to get back on that same level here. My father never got past his second year of college and my mother didn’t have college at all. But I think everybody should think of herself as a first, because they’re the first in their own life, and they should value themselves for that.

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A Letter of Thanks: First to be a Nurse

Cynthia Sackie is a senior at Action Faith Institute in Paynesville, Liberia. Her scholarship this year is funded by the staff of O, the Oprah Magazine in New York City, via the MacDella Cooper Foundation. On my recent trip to Liberia, she handwrote a note expressing her gratitude and story. I share it here with you because there’s no better way to express the impact of education sponsorship — it gives you chills!

Cynthia Sackie

Cynthia Sackie

Dear O Magazine,

My name is Cynthia Sackie. I am 18 years old, a 12 grade student of the MacDella Cooper Foundation who is blessed to be sponsored by your magazine. I just want to say thank you so much for my education, for giving me something that will always be part of me, something that no man can take away. May God richly bless you.

I am a Liberian, my parents are farmers and live in Grand Kru County. We are six from one mother, three boys and three girls. Grand Kru is one of the remote county within Liberia, located in the southeast. Up to present, there are no car roads. People walk for miles from one town to another. From where the main road stop to get to my home town is about four hours walk. I used to walk for hours, sometime with half bag of rice on my head.

There is no high school in Grand Kru. But I am in Monrovia today because of MCF and you. I live with my grandmother on DuPort Road. I sell after school just to meet up with my needs. I am member of my church choir. I am to be out of high school by June 2010. I hope to attend Cuttington College and become a nurse, then go back to my poor people to help them stay well. Many people died from simple sickness, just because doctors or health workers are not willing to work in a remote area like my country.

Thank God for MCF, thank God for O Magazine. I wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. The sky is the limit to my education.

Truly yours,

Cynthia


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Shanti Bhavan Student: The First to be a Journalist

Being a journalist is a "first" for Shilpa, an 11th grader attending Shanti Bhavan Children's Project in India.

Being a journalist is a "first" for Shilpa, an 11th grader attending Shanti Bhavan Children's Project in India.

Shanti Bhavan Children’s Project, part of the She’s the First network, launched in August 1997 as a world-class boarding school for children of the lowest caste in India: the Untouchables. Their families live on less than 50 cents per day and could never afford to give them an education. But thanks to sponsors who support either part of or all of a child’s tuition, valued at $1,500 per student annually, these girls and boys can aspire to any career they want. One wants to be a human rights activist, another a forensic archaeologist. An especially talented young lady in the 11th grade, Shilpa, plans to become a journalist.

Shanti Bhavan publishes Shilpa’s talent this month in its newsletter, where she writes an essay about how her education saved her from a life of begging on the streets of India. What struck me in her vividly reported piece was the fact that she recognized the magnitude of being a “first.” She writes of her classmates:

“Many of these children are the first ones in their families to have gone to school, study English, to pass the ICSE 10th grade examinations or get to meet foreigners who come from different parts of the world as volunteers.”

I encourage you to read Shilpa’s full article here, and leave her words of encouragement below too — we’ll ask Shanti Bhavan’s Director of Operations, Ajit George, to pass them along to her. And if you’d like to sponsor a student at Shanti Bhavan on any scale, you can make a donation here. You’ll always know exactly what difference your contributions make, because Shanti Bhavan blogs it all…there’s never a dull moment. See for yourself!

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