Monthly Archives: July 2010

Happy Birthday, Grace! {another update on our Tanzania girls!}

Lots to celebrate at She’s the First, including a special birthday today! July 28th is the birthday of Grace Lyimo in Tanzania, one of our Kisa Scholars supported by GIRLS WHO ROCK!

The Kisa Scholars are close to our heart not only because our first benefit concert, GIRLS WHO ROCK NY, sponsored them, but also because we maintain a direct line of communication with them through an online social network on kisaproject.org. Each girl created a video telling us her story in pictures, which we just posted to the blog this morning. Our thanks to those who commented about how inspired you felt after watching them (including singer Lenka!)

Today, July 28th, is Grace's birthday!

When the girls write us, we post their messages here so that you can leave questions and answer theirs in the comments. We cut & paste these comments in our replies to the girls — it means a lot and they recognize your names! So please join us in keeping this cross-cultural exchange and digital storytelling going. Here are the latest notes from Grace and Elizabeth. Your heart can’t help but smile reading them.

Birthday girl Grace writes:

I am thankful to hear from you, I hope to know much about you. For sure you’re my support, I feel like I am special to have you also I feel like I have already complete my dreams. Sure you inspire me to accomplish my dreams and to do more things than what I dream.
THANKS VERY MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
About my birthday don’t worry, cause I have Happiness and Elizabeth and all our KISA family here by my side. I know they will help me on this since we are like one family.
I will try to write every day because we were facing Internet problems but now every thing is cool so don’t worry we will always communicate.
Please let me end here but tomorrow I will try to write more.
bye! enjoy your day!
love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Elizabeth David intends to become an international businesswoman!

From Elizabeth David, we received:

Hi guys! I’m so happy that I have heard from you! How’s everything? I’m also happy to have read Katie’s message.
I have never seen something in 3D but I have heard about it on TV. It must be cool right? At the leadership conference something which I found incredible was launching a project. At first I thought that it was almost impossible but with God’s help we made it and launched our ‘teaching ict program’. It boosted up my confidence coz i had to stand in front of many guest to present to them about our project. It was really helpful coz being a leader needs alot of courage.
I know about facebook coz alot of my friends here at school also connect with their other friends through it.
We also learn about listening to others which is also helpful like you have said.In my community there problems like girls being treated inferior something which annoys me so much and which am determined to fight against. Also people have the habit of throwing trash almost anywhere although in town there are dustbins. But I think there aren’t enough dustbins so this is also a problem. I usually tell my friend not to throw bottles or papers just any place and if there’s no dustbin nearby it’s better if they just carry them and dump them at home. What are the problems in your society?and how do you deal with them?
Yes, I do believe that you are my global sisters,and we are united by the passion and courage to make some changes in our societies.
Pass my love to Katie, Cheryl, Chelsea and all the others.

[Editor's Note: Emails have been lightly edited for punctuation and spelling.]

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Meet Ana Dodson – Our First Partner in Peru!

Cuzco, Peru awaits She's the First!

We chose to begin #STF360 in Cuzco, Peru, because that’s where Ana Dodson and her team from Peruvian Hearts will be working the first week of August. Their motto: “Changing the world, one heart at a time.”

We are so humbled and thankful to have the Peruvian Hearts team greet us at the airport and welcome us to their home in Cuzco. That night, the Dodsen family invited us to a special dinner, to meet their friends and native residents who have been part of Peruvian Hearts since its founding in 2003. Danny, the executive director and Ana’s brother, also introduced us to Edwin, who owns LaQuinta Eco Hotel, a 100% organic place for us to sleep (and they have wireless Internet, which means we can blog and tweet freely!).

Ana, with one of her girls

We couldn’t dream of a warmer welcome to Peru, and we’re overjoyed to unlock our mission there: supporting girls’ education, alongside Ana. Now, will you join us in giving Ana a warm She’s the First welcome? Here’s a little bit more about her!

Ana’s Stats

  • She’s 18
  • She was born in Cuzco, Peru and adopted by the Dodsens, who live in Colorado, when she was a baby. (Fun fact: The offices of Peruvian Hearts and AfricAid, our Tanzanian beneficiary for the GIRLS WHO ROCK NY concert, are located down the street from one another!)
  • In the summer of 2003, at age 11, Ana visited the orphanages in Peru near where she was born. She brought toys and books for them. When she was leaving, an orphan named Gloria said to her, “Ana, I know you will not forget about us and that you will help us in the future.” That’s what inspired Ana to start Peruvian Hearts.
  • Ana was honored as a CNN Hero and a former DoSomething Award finalist. Colin Powell also gave her the Prudential Spirit of Community Award in 2005. She was named one of the top 10 youth volunteers in the United States.
  • This video is a wonderfully inspirational 3-minute introduction:


Ana’s Goals

  • Improve the quality of life for children in Peru who are living in orphanages or in extreme poverty
  • Inspire youth in America to reach out and help others less fortunate than themselves

Ana’s Projects

  • Providing daily lunches and vitamins is a huge initiative of Peruvian Hearts

    Providing daily lunches and vitamins is a huge initiative of Peruvian Hearts

    Maria’s Gift Scholarship Fund: Ana created this scholarship in the memory of her birth mother, who never learned to read or write. It supports secondary school education for girls in need.

  • Orphanage Renovation: Peruvian Hearts works with the Hogar Mercedes de Jesus Molina, helping to make it a model orphanage by improving the schooling, sanitation, and structure. 20 girls live here, in the hills just outside of Cusco. They’ve also brought clean/hot water to the Hogar.
  • Feeding and Vitamins: Peruvian Hearts supports two children’s lunch programs that serve about 400 children daily, who walk miles to get to school. They also provide a multivitamin daily (which is why we collected some at the recent #CelebrateSTF tweetup in NYC!)
  • Medical and Health Care: Peruvian Hearts provides the children medical and dental exams, as well as emotional support through a visiting psychologist when needed.
  • The Library Project: Peruvian Hearts sends children’s books in Spanish down to Peru.
  • Tutoring Project: Ana and her volunteers provide extra homework help.

We aim to add Peruvian Heart’s sponsorship initiatives to our She’s the First directory upon our return to the States! What questions do you have for Ana about Peruvian Hearts? Leave them in the comments and we’ll ask!

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Videos by our Kisa Scholars — Sponsored from GIRLS WHO ROCK NY!

Ashley Shuyler, founder of AfricAid and the Kisa Project, on the GIRLS WHO ROCK red carpet

Ashley Shuyler, the founder of AfricAid and its interactive sponsorship program called the Kisa Project, wrote us a detailed progress report on each of the three Tanzanian students we sponsor with profits from GIRLS WHO ROCK in New York City. As we previously blogged, the girls finished a 10-day leadership training summit in July, where they not only learned to launch a business and write a children’s book, but they also created these three videos in which they narrate their lives and dreams!

We proudly present to you each girl’s assessment from Ashley and her digital story — this is your chance to know her better than ever before. Please take a moment to leave a comment back to any or all of the girls, as we will be forwarding them along!

Elizabeth David

Elizabeth David

Elizabeth is one of the smartest girls in the group, usually keeping her opinion quiet, but speaking up at critical moments of a discussion, at which point the other girls really pay attention. As you’ll see in her story, she is committed to becoming a businesswoman so that she can prove to men that girls are capable of doing great things as well. She’s also quite the fashionista of the group, and spent a lot of time looking at the photos of you all and commenting on how beautiful everyone is. :) She truly couldn’t believe that Kat Deluna had performed for her, and she loved watching the video as well and seeing the other performers. She picked up using the computers really quickly and was soon doing Google searches for “Disney movies,” which made me smile. She’s a truly special young lady.”

Grace Lyimo

“I wrote the following about Grace in a dispatch home to friends and family: ‘I wish I could share with you the stories of each of these extraordinarily special young women. But I firmly believe that you’ll be hearing about them in the years ahead – they are determined to make big changes for their families, communities, and nation. One student, Grace, approached me early on in the workshop. Although she was the athlete and jokester of the group, I realized immediately that she had a big vision that she demanded to be taken seriously. She told me that, ever since she was young, she had felt an irresistible need to help orphans and street children – but that her brothers and family had simply laughed at her when she expressed this goal to them. She told me that she had given up hope – both for her dream and for herself – but that everything changed when she was selected for the Kisa Project.  She asked me one evening not long before the end of our time together, “Do you really think I can do it? Can I really help street kids?” When I told her that every person in Kisa was behind her, she revealed that she had already begun making plans to start a small business, through which she would donate a portion of her profits to support street children, and she was beginning to research how to adopt orphans – so that she could adopt two of them in later life. I hugged her with the deepest of admiration.’  You can see that she truly tugged at my hearstrings.  Even though she presents herself as a tough, athletic and cool young lady on the outside (and, by the way, has an unbelievably sophisticated sense of humor), she has the most well-defined and serious vision out of all of our Kisa Scholars, and is absolutely determined to bring it to life.”

Happiness Monyo

Happiness is quiet and unassuming in a group, but when talking one-on-one with her, she comes to life and is really one of the smartest in the group, right up there with Elizabeth. She is very community-minded and would always be watching out for the group and generously helping her fellow students, even when she, herself, came down with a cold. As you’ll see in her digital story, she’s also quite the artist and has had a challenging childhood. She, along with the others, was so excited to hear about the concert!”

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#STF360 Peru Itinerary: Follow Us!

Children fed through 18-year-old Ana Dodson's Peruvian Hearts program

Here’s a tentative plan of where Cynthia Hellen, Tammy Tibbetts, Lizbeth Aguilar, and Manny Rodriguez will be each day on their two-week voluntourism trip to Peru, supporting children and exploring girls’ education. We’re piloting the She’s the First travel series, known on twitter as #STF360 The purpose: to tell girls’ stories and show what their local communities are doing to support their education, and where they need our help. We’ll be volunteering with nonprofits–Peruvian Hearts, La Sagrada Familia (where ALEGRIA works), Rebano de Jesus, Asociación Civil Pro Niño Intimo– while filming interviews and photographing the surroundings. Learn more about how you can get involved in #STF360 through this post.

Friday, July 30 — Depart NYC! From LGA airport to Florida (btw, it’s home to the next GIRLS WHO ROCK concert, so follow @girlswhorockmia!), where we have a 3.5 hour layover before take-off to Lima, Peru.

Saturday, July 31 — Fly from Lima to Cuzco, an hour-and-20-minute flight, and the Peruvian Hearts team will meet us at the airport! We’ll go to founder Ana Dodson’s house, have lunch, rest (VERY important to prevent altitude sickness!), and then join her team for dinner.

Machu Picchu, often referred to as "The Lost City of the Incas"

Sunday, August 1st and Monday, August 2nd – Breakfast, tour, and do field work with the nonprofits.

Tuesday, August 3rd — Inca Trail Hike to Macchu Picchu

Wednesday, August 4th — Depart Cuzco and fly back to Lima. Tour and do field work with a nonprofit.

Thursday, August 5th and Friday, August 6th – Field work with nonprofits in Lima.

Saturday, August 7th – Tentatively planning to depart Lima and fly to Trujillo.

Sunday, August 8th-Wednesday, August 11th – Field work in Trujillo, and back to Lima on Wednesday.

Thursday, August 12th and Friday, August 13th – More field work and excursions in Lima. We’ll also be visiting two schools in Lima, an elementary and a high school, entering the classroom and speaking to professors and the directors of the school.

Saturday, August 14th — Depart Lima

Sunday, August 15th — Return to NYC!

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School Spotlight: Field Day at Shanti Bhavan in India

[Editor's Note: Our summer guest blogger who is volunteering at the Shanti Bhavan Children's School in India, Shreya Bhatt, updates us with a video. This school is co-ed, as you can see, but you can fundraise for sponsorships and request to support a girl!]

Last Thursday, Shanti Bhavan held its annual Field Day, where all students of grade two and up participated at various stations that tested their athletic skills.

The children were divided into the four Harry Potter houses (Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw and Slytherin), and each student competed against each other, irrespective of grade. In essence, the spirit of cooperation and competition at Shanti Bhavan was unequivocally displayed on Field Day 2010. Take a peek!

[Editor's Note: This could be you volunteering with the kids next summer! Shanti Bhavan has a great volunteer program, and if you go, consider being a #STF360 travel journalist!]

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Introducing She's the First 360, Our Travel Series!

Tune into our social media travel series -- the pilot is in Peru!

We’re piloting a new travel series called She’s the First 360 in August! Are you ready to join us on a journey to Peru?!

On July 30-August 15, She’s the First President/Founder Tammy Tibbetts will be in Cuzco and Lima, Peru with GIRLS WHO ROCK Co-Founder Cynthia Hellen and teammates Lizbeth Aguilar and Manny Rodriguez.

The purpose of the series: Voluntourism meets digital storytelling. Visit the partners in the She’s the First directory and capture the stories of their girls and community in video and photography.

The assignment: Ask questions and listen to the answers. Have girls tell us their own stories of struggles and triumphs with education. Show what the local community is doing to support them and where they need help. How can we help girls break barriers together?

Why do we call this 360? As much as we focus on creative grassroots fundraising here in the US, we want to take the advocacy of girls’ education worldwide full circle. We want to travel to the places we’re helping and open a dialogue that brings both sides together — introduce the global fundraisers to the local community leaders, by leveraging social media.

Ana Dodsen (center, in pink) is the founder of Peruvian Hearts, who we'll be following in Cuzco!

Ana Dodson (center, in pink) is the founder of Peruvian Hearts, who we'll be following in Cuzco!

How can I be a part of She’s the First 360? You can start by following our blog posts and tweets, leaving comments, and sending thoughts and feedback. Use hash tag #STF360 on Twitter. Then, next time you want to take an international trip with some volunteer work mixed in, consider visiting one of the She’s the First partners in our directory.

Why Peru? We discovered an outstanding organization called Peruvian Hearts, founded by 18-year-old Ana Dodson, that we wanted to add to the She’s the First network. Ana, who was adopted from Peru, and her brother, Peruvian Hearts director Danny Dodson, invited us to shadow their work with girls in Cuzco, Peru. Cynthia, a native Peruvian herself, then found other nonprofits in the capital city of Lima for us meet.

How often will we hear from you? Almost every day! Tammy will be blogging and Tweeting every time we have Internet access. Expect as many photos and videos as Internet speeds will allow us to post!

Tell us a little more about the travel team!

Manny and Lizbeth at GIRLS WHO ROCK, the She's the First benefit concert in New York City on June 10

Lizbeth Aguilar, @lizbeth_lorena, born in Trujillo, Peru with Spaniard ancestry, is a Latina businesswoman, medical student, and photographer. She holds a BS from Fairleigh Dickinson in Biology, Chemistry, Advertising, and is pursuing a Medical Degree for Surgery in New York City. At 21, she assumed role as VP of Marketing at A Professional Group, her family’s conglomerate business. Before that, she worked in the medical field and customer service for five years. This past summer, she joined forces with her oldest sister Cynthia Hellen as Volunteer Coordinator for GIRLS WHO ROCK. Lizbeth is passionate in photography, youth development, education, animal rights, health care, and human rights. In addition to English, Lizbeth is fluent in Spanish and ASL (she is proficient in Portuguese and is determined to learn French).

Cynthia Hellen, @cynthiahellen, is a business leader, social innovator, entrepreneur, and scholar based in New York City and New Jersey. She is Vice President of Development for the AP Group, a family-owned conglomerate of real estate development, beauty/cosmetic salon, restaurant and consulting companies. At age 15, she opened her own Latin restaurant with her younger sister, doing everything from filing permits, creating the menu, and serving, all while attending high school. When she was 18, she sold the business for a real estate property and attended Kean University for a Bachelor’s in Visual Arts, Communication, and Performance Arts. After college, Cynthia interned with CW11, then ventured into new media and became a writer/producer at T7Live, a website of news, fashion, music, and technology, most notably co-producing coverage of President Obama’s election night and Fashion Week. By the age of 25, she decided to use her experience to give back and create sustainable, socially conscious entities. She co-founded GIRLS WHO ROCK, a benefit concert for She’s the First, for which she serves on the Board of Directors. Cynthia also volunteers with charity : water and Project Sunshine. She produced our entire trip itinerary and built the relationships with the nonprofits we will meet!

Manny Rodriguez, @mannyarod, was born in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. Manny’s early schooling took place in San Jose De Las Matas, Santiago. At the age of nine, he arrived to Elizabeth, NJ with his younger brother, Osvaldo. He attended Union High School where he excelled at Science and History while working at his parents Spanish Restaurant in Newark, NJ at the age of 14. He studied business administration the first two years of college, while continuing his work in the restaurant business, pharmaceutical industry, and customer service part-time. At 23, he became CEO of his family’s restaurant and has been an restaurateur ever since. In addition to English, Manny is fluent in Spanish and ASL. Manny is passionate about business, youth development, energy conservation, wellness, racial equality, and sports. He resides in Union, NJ, recently volunteered and catered the GIRLS WHO ROCK benefit concert, and is interested in the non-profit sector, especially the efforts of She’s the First leaders and volunteers for girls’ education.

Cynthia Hellen and Tammy Tibbetts at last week's #CelebrateSTF tweetup at the Celebrate CafeCelebrateSTF

Cynthia Hellen and Tammy Tibbetts at last week's #CelebrateSTF tweetup at the Celebrate Cafe

Tammy Tibbetts, @tammytibbetts, is the Founder/President of She’s the First, launched Nov. 1, 2009, just before she took off on her last trip — to Monrovia, Liberia in West Africa with the MacDella Cooper Foundation. There she managed a sponsorship program that sent orphaned and abandoned children to local schools, met with the principals, evaluated report cards, and set up a lunchtime feeding program. She is a 2007 graduate of The College of New Jersey with a journalism major/Spanish minor, and her goal is to be the group’s reporter — taking lots of notes, asking lots of questions, and blogging for you at each Internet access opportunity.

Have any messages for the team? Post them in the comments. We’ll share our itinerary before we leave!

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What Happened at the Kisa Leadership Summit?

Group shot! Ashley with the Kisa Scholars during her visit to Tanzania in July

Group shot: Ashley with the Kisa Scholars during her visit to Tanzania in July

Attendees, performers, and donors from our first GIRLS WHO ROCK benefit concert, June 10 in NYC, won’t want to miss this update!

As you know, your support sponsored Elizabeth, Grace, and Happiness in the Kisa Project, a secondary school educational program AfricAid runs in Tanzania, which also enrolls the girls in computer and leadership training. Our Scholars email us messages at least once a month, and we post them here to the blog for you to comment on, and then we relay those messages back to them. Right here on shesthefirst.org, we are so awed to watch a two-year cross-cultural exchange and digital storytelling project unravel, all from one rockin’ night in New York City.

Kisa Scholars present their Kisanet business plan to a group of 30 parents, teachers, guests, and heads of school.

There are some BIG updates with the Kisa Project that recently came our way from founder Ashley Shuyler! She just returned to Colorado from 10 weeks in Tanzania, where she ran a 10-day leadership summit with the girls. The girls had a challenge: start a sustainable service project or business that they would take back to their school communities. They had to write a business plan, create a budget and a marketing plan, and present all this to 30 parents, teachers, and heads of school. Ashley says the end product was remarkable. The Scholars chose to teach computer classes at a low cost to students and community members who otherwise couldn’t afford to take such a course. Ashley writes:

Their reasoning behind choosing a computer-based project was compelling: they identified that, although they have little capital, they do have an incredible resource in the Kisa-installed computer labs at their partner schools; and, at the same time, their research revealed a great need for increased computer literacy in Tanzania – not only do most jobs now require some familiarity with computers, but additionally, the Tanzanian government recently mandated that all college applications be submitted online, even when most students have never used a computer. I couldn’t have been prouder when, on the final day of the workshop, the students launched their inaugural computer class to a group of street kids and young Maasai women from a local school – all of whom left the class chattering excitedly about their new-found knowledge skills. This, from a group of girls who themselves had never touched a computer before becoming part of Kisa.

We have to say with special pride that in Ashley’s email to AfricAid’s supporters, she singled out one girl’s story from this leadership workshop — and it was Grace, one of our girls! Here’s what she said:

One student, Grace, approached me early on in the workshop. Although she was the athlete and jokester of the group, I realized immediately that she had a big vision that she demanded to be taken seriously. She told me that, ever since she was young, she had felt an irresistible need to help orphans and street children – but that her brothers and family had simply laughed at her when she expressed this goal to them. She told me that she had given up hope – both for her dream and for herself – but that everything changed when she was selected for the Kisa Project.  She asked me one evening not long before the end of our time together, “Do you really think I can do it? Can I really help street kids?” When I told her that every person in Kisa was behind her, she revealed that she had already begun making plans to start a small business, through which she would donate a portion of her profits to support street children, and she was beginning to research how to adopt orphans – so that she could adopt two of them in later life. I hugged her with the deepest of admiration. (If you’re interested, you can watch a digital story created by Grace and her dreams here.)

Ashley also sent us individual feedback on each of our three girls, which we will share with you in an upcoming post this week. Thanks for reading through this lengthy one — but wasn’t every word part of a big, beaming smile on your face now?

* More photos from AfricAid on Facebook *

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#CelebrateSTF Tweetup Recap: Our Photographer’s Point of View

* See Photos from the Tweetup here *

* See #CelebrateSTF Tweets here *

The teen staff of the Celebrate Cafe (from the Lower East Side Girls Club)

What could be a more fitting place for a NYC She’s the First Tweetup than the Celebrate Cafe inside the Bowery Poetry Club, owned by the inspiring Lower East Side Girls Club? I’d always heard bits and pieces about the Girls Club: their dedication to providing safe spaces for girls of NYC to learn, grow, and follow their dreams. And now there I was, surrounded by young women informed of our cause via the wonder that is online social media, ready and eager to learn more.

After the She’s the First President/Founder, Tammy Tibbetts, gave a brief overview of our She’s The First goals, we all introduced ourselves and mentioned how we first heard about the cause. And while I don’t personally have a Twitter account (yet!), the ways in which these young professionals heard about STF really proved the power of word of mouth!

As photographer of the night, I got to get close and personal with our attendees when I took their portraits and asked them, “What are you the first to do? What do you still want to be the first to do?” Every answer I received was just as incredible as the women themselves, like Kaitlin Davis, who is the first in her family to perform at Carnegie Hall or girls-school teacher Stephanie, who is the first in her family to get a Masters Degree and go cliff diving, or even NYU Journalism and French Major Lauren Strupp, who was the first in her family to study abroad to Paris. Equally inspiring were the goals of the actual girls of the Lower East Side Girls Club, like Besa Balidemaj, who dreams of being the first woman to open an international organization in Kosovo that protects families, educates them, and helps them achieve their goals financially.

Ajit George stopped by the Tweetup -- he represents the India partner in our directory, the Shanti Bhavan Children's Project.

I had such an amazing time getting together with all of the She’s The First supporters, and I was reminded that not every supporter is a she! I loved that I got a chance to meet Ajit George, the US Director of Operations for Shanti Bhavan Children’s Project, where our guest blogger Shreya Bhatt is volunteering this summer. My favorite part of every She’s The First event is when we have new people come and inquire about our non-profit. While photographing the girls, I was approached by Edward (another guy!) who was impressed with our efforts concerning girls’ education and admitted that his girl cousins in the Philippines have even asked him to send money for school instead of Barbie dolls for Christmas presents. All they want to do is learn.

We loved hearing from him and our Tweeters, and now we want to hear your stories! What do you want to be the first to do? You can still be part of the Tweetup if you tweet your answer to @shesthefirst and use our hash tag #CelebrateSTF!

Also, here’s a video from our Director Christen Brandt — experience the Tweetup in 43 seconds!

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She's the First Speaks at FIRST Shatterbox Salon!

Amanda Holt, founder of Shatterbox, introduces Viktoria, Mickey, Emily and Tammy to speak about the passion behind their projects!

Amanda Holt, founder of Shatterbox, introduces Viktoria, Mickey, Emily and Tammy to speak about the passion behind their projects!

On Monday night, we had the honor of being in the esteemed company of Emily Dubner, CEO of Baking for Good, Viktoria Harrison, Director of Design & Branding for charity : water, and Mickey Duzyj, an A-list magazine and book illustrator, on stage at The Tank in NYC! She’s the First Founder/President Tammy Tibbetts spoke at the first salon hosted by Shatterbox, the website that you may remember for giving us their first “Make Your Mark” Award! Their mission is simple and selfless: “Shatterbox wants you to wake up in the morning and love what you do. So we’re going to introduce you to lots of people who do and help you find how to get there yourself.”

How do they do it? By capturing the stories of cool dreamer/doers in high-quality video vignettes. They’ll be filming one about us upon our return from Peru in late August!

We met so many curious, ambitious people in the audience at the salon, including one fella Jim Altieri, who email introduced us to his friend Josh, who’s about to go to Nablus in the West Bank to work with girls and help them tell their stories! This is his web site and we will now be meeting up with him to learn more. Stay tuned! Never underestimate the power of networking events and random encounters to educate and change the world. :)

Thank you again to Shatterbox co-founders, Amanda and Megan!

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Jessica Posner Wins the 2010 Do Something Award!

Jessica Posner wins the jackpot $100,000! Woo hoo, it's like our team won the Super Bowl!

Jessica Posner wins the jackpot $100,000! Woo hoo, it's like our team won the Super Bowl!

What is it that would cause me to almost scream out of joy and wake my entire house up at 10:59pm on a Monday night??? JESSICA POSNER WINNING THE DO SOMETHING AWARD! (since I couldn’t scream in my house I figured I would take advantage of the digital scream through caps lock)! This makes two years in a row that She’s the First partners have won the Do Something Award. Last year’s grand prize award recipient, Maggie Doyne, creator of the BlinkNow Foundation, was on hand for the evening’s festivities. Including, Ashley Shuyler of AfricAid, a 2007 Do Something Finalist, we now have 3 DoSomething Award honorees in our network! We are so proud of all of the work that they’re all doing towards furthering the education of girls worldwide. A big congrats goes out to Jessica! Live it up and enjoy the fruits of your labor! You deserve it!!!

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Arts and Education: Live from Shanti Bhavan School in India

[Editor's Note: We asked our summer guest blogger in India, Shreya, to tell us all a little bit more about how schools in the developing world use the arts for education. She responds with this visual post.]

Shanti Bhavan is not only an institution that emphasizes academic excellence, but also one that shapes the personalities and worldviews of the children form a young age. What the children do outside of the classroom is deemed just as important as how they perform within. What follows are visual posts on these developments that are non-academic in nature, especially through performing arts such as dance and music.

Alison Futura has been training the school choir

Alison Futura has been training the school choir

The 8th grade girls are learning how to play the cello from Summer Boggess, a professional Broadway musician

The 8th grade girls are learning how to play the cello from Summer Boggess, a professional Broadway musician

Sabala Baskar, a graduate student from Washington D.C., teaches dance to the 11th and 12th grade girls

Sabala Baskar, a graduate student from Washington D.C., teaches dance to the 11th and 12th grade girls

[Editor's Note: Thanks, Shreya! Anyone else interested in volunteering at Shanti Bhavan now?! It's on our bucket list. :) ]

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The Link Between Miss America & She’s the First: More Powerful Than You Think!

Kaitlin Davis with the teen pageant contestant, Mackenzie, whom she inspired to host a She's the First fundraiser of her own -- resulting in a sponsorship at Maggie Doyne's school in Nepal!

When you think of pageants, I’d wager the first thing that comes to mind isn’t education. In fact, I have a nagging feeling that the word is more likely to drum up images of overly teased hair or a young lady from South Carolina who became famous for an answer she never meant to give. That saddens me, more than a little bit, because I’ve spent the last three years pursuing the Miss New Jersey crown and I can tell you that it’s so much more than that.

The “pageant girls” I know are bright and motivated—anxious and eager to make a difference in the world around them, and to pursue an education that will give them the keys to do so. I know titleholders who aspire to medical school, law school, business school, and careers in education, the non-profit sector, media, and more. In fact, that’s why I got involved… I needed scholarship money to pursue my education. I knew that attending college was imperative to my future, to achieving my goals. I stayed involved because I quickly realized how one rhinestone accessory gave me the power to make a difference in the community.

Joyce Auyuma, the student Kaitlin sponsors in Kenya at the Kibera School for Girls

Joyce Auyma, the student Kaitlin sponsors in Kenya at the Kibera School for Girls

I guess it’s no surprise then why I fell in love with She’s the First. Much like the young women I’ve developed relationships with through the pageant community, She’s the First is a made up of savvy, intelligent young women who are passionate and strong-willed, constantly dreaming up new ideas of how to change the world. Furthermore, they take their work seriously. They know that their actions may motivate others to do the same, and that they are paving the way for generations of young women to come. Above all, they recognize the power of education to make a dream a reality.

You might have read about how I chose to sponsor the education of a girl in Haiti as my gift to this year’s Miss New Jersey contestants. The girls were incredibly receptive and anxious to know more about what She’s the First is and does—many of them have even volunteered to help with a fundraiser I’m planning for later this summer. Since then, a teen contestant has begun her own efforts to sponsor a girl, several parents and friends have expressed their interest and support in attending upcoming events, I’ve been able to sponsor a second young lady at the Kibera School for Girls, and we’re ordering “tiara” cookies from our new partner, Baking for Good, as a “send-off” gift for a young lady leaving for her first national pageant. I’m so thrilled! More importantly, I am so proud that She’s the First is demonstrating the power of young women everywhere to come together to impact significant change.

Miss New Jersey group shot -- Kaitlin is third from left in front row, in white T-shirt.

Miss New Jersey group shot -- Kaitlin is third from left in front row, in white T-shirt.

My involvement in both organizations has taught me one big lesson: the power of education is unparalleled. You are capable of accomplishing anything you dream of, if only you are given the keys to do so. The Miss America Organization gave me a key that I needed, and I believe that She’s the First is only just beginning to provide the tools that will change the lives of girls around the world.

Hairspray and textbooks—who ever would have guessed?

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She’s the First Tweetup in NYC on Wednesday!

She’s the First is hosting our first tweetup in NYC on Wednesday, July 21st, 6:30-8pm!

RSVP for free here!

She's the First Summer Tweetup is July 21st at Celebrate Cafe in Lower East Side!

What’s a Tweetup, you ask? It’s essentially a meet-up of smart, savvy people who want to change the world and believe girls’ education is a solution (that’s you, right?) We promote it online (via Twitter, Facebook, Eventbrite) but we gather face-to-face offline. We build an online dialogue around the offline action by using a hash tag, #CelebrateSTF. This lets you view all tweets pertaining to the Tweetup on this search page, so you can participate even if you aren’t in NYC. We’ll have a laptop hooked up to wireless Internet so we can tweet back!

What do we do at a Tweetup? We have FUN! This is NOT a meeting. No agenda. We just hang out, like you would at a bar — make friends, talk about your interests, ask us questions. We’re eager to meet you!

meet us at the Celebrate Cafe inside!

Meet us at the Celebrate Cafe inside!

Where do we meet? We selected a very special location for our first Tweetup! It’s the brand-new Celebrate Cafe, founded by the Lower East Side Girls Club, and it’s located inside the Bowery Poetry Club. Here are 3 reasons why it rocks:

1. The server is a teenager from the Girls Club who has gone through leadership and career training programs — this is her first job! This is a terrific chance for us to support girls locally in NYC!

2. The food is affordable (coffee for a buck and a meal for under $10!) and sourced locally. Try a deviled egg for 50 cents, fruits from the local greenmarket, breads from the Parisi’s Bakery around the corner, popcorn from Farmer Steve in NJ, and more.

3. There’s a Poetry Pushcart that sells handmade and small press editions of some of today’s best established and emerging poets, as well as greeting cards, arts, and crafts made by members of the Girls Club and their sister clubs in Mexico and Nepal.

RSVP for free here!

BONUS: If you bring a bottle of children’s chewable vitamins, then we’ll enter you into a raffle to win a cool prize on the spot! We’ll bring the vitamins to children in Peru on our STF voluntourism trip this August. (Tell you about it at the Tweetup!)

 

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Mountains and Moments

“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”- Anne Frank

This Maisy Monday is the beginning of the final week of my second semester of graduate school.  While that may not be monumental to a lot of people, it is to me. I had never intended on going to graduate school. It was a mountain that I was uncertain that I would be able to climb. I took a year off after I got my undergraduate degree and tried to figure out what it was that I wanted to do with my life. My first conversations with my mom

My mom and my grandmother, two of my greatest inspirations

My mom and my grandmother, two of my greatest inspirations

about going to graduate school made me slightly nervous because I knew once I uttered those words…the idea was out there. Before my grandmother passed away last year, I discussed the idea with her and she sealed the deal. Her words to me were…”never stop learning…please, keep going to school.” I knew if she believed in me that much, I could do anything. I picked up the GRE book the next day and started to study. The more I studied, the more I remembered how much I thoroughly enjoyed learning. I found myself getting more and more excited about the possibility of throwing myself into graduate school and loving every minute of it. Before I knew it, I was at graduate student orientation.

My first semester came to a close with straight A’s. I worked harder than I ever had before…but the key to this was that I had finally found my passion. It was always there but grad school helped me to tap into it at a deeper level. This semester began my She’s the First adventure…and what an adventure it has been. At this moment, I am currently working on a research paper for my independent study on She’s the First. My paper highlites the epic lengths that She’s the First has come in such a short lifespan and how the millennial generation has utilized social media to make a difference.  She’s the First has built itself upon a foundation of the input and talents of its followers. I was once just a She’s the First twitter follower. Now, here I am….a couple months later…an intern and preparing to get more involved.  I’ve learned so much in my She’s the First journey and it’s far from over. Not only have I learned so much, but I’ve felt so much. I am constantly amazed by the ambition, talent, and generosity of everyone in our network and above all, the passion that everyone has to make a difference.

She’s the First has so many exciting things in the works. There is one thing I can say for certain: no one is going to stop this incredibly talented team of ladies (and now gentleman)! So, if everyone would be so kind as to leave me a comment, my questions for the week to you are these: Who is someone in your life that has inspired you to achieve your firsts and how did they do so?

I have tried to draw inspiration from everything and everyone in my life. I’ve found inspiration in failure and success…in my best of friends and those that have been a challenge to me. Some have been one in the same. My best advice that I can give you at this point in my life is to surround yourself with positive, encouraging people who are going to support you in achieving your dreams.  No matter what though, never give up your belief in yourself and your ability to make a difference in the world. Look at the things that She’s the First has achieved in less than a year. Imagine the possibilities! So, go climb your mountain, whatever your mountain may be.

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11th Grade Girls in India Have Questions for Us — Please Answer One!

Shreya with Shanti Bhavan students on the playground in India.

Shreya with Shanti Bhavan students on the playground in India.

Our guest blogger Shreya, volunteering at the Shanti Bhavan School (a She’s the First partner) in India, recently interviewed Lily, the 11th grade soccer star who told us about her family’s dire poverty. Now, the 11th grade girls have questions for you! Please answer one (or a few!) in the comments (noting the question number in your answer). Shreya will print the answers out for the girls to discuss. Keep in mind that some of these questions are a reflection of the circumstances the girls see every day in India: poverty, arranged marriage, discrimination by caste, abuse, etc. They want to know if this is the norm. Fortunately, it is not here in the US — so please tell them, and encourage them to dream, explore, discover, and change the world!

  1. What is an average school day schedule like?
  2. Do school children have uniforms?
  3. How are boarding schools run?
  4. Is there a caste system or any other basis of discrimination of people?
  5. Is there any such thing as ‘child labor’?
  6. What is the cheapest meal in the US?
  7. Which is the cheapest city in the US?
  8. What are some places worth visiting?
  9. Can you get any product you want in the US?
  10. What happens if a child gets beaten up?

More stories about life at Shanti Bhavan this summer can be read on Shreya’s own blog here.

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She’s The First Spirit at Notre Dame University

Katie Washington, first African-American valedictorian of Notre Dame University, Class of 2010

Katie Washington, first African-American valedictorian of Notre Dame University, Class of 2010

She’s the First is leaving its mark on the University of Notre Dame campus! Most notably, this June we joined the Class of 2010 in celebrating the first African-American valedictorian ever, Katie Washington, a biological sciences major from Gary, Indiana. She led the Class of 2010 with a 4.0 GPA.

Katie’s resume is quite impressive! She conducted research on lung cancer at the Cold Spring Harbor labs, performed genetic studies in the University’s Eck Institute for Global Health on the mosquito that carries dengue and yellow fever, and is the co-author of a research paper with David Severson, professor of biological sciences.

“I am humbled,” Katie said to the Northwest Indiana Times. “I am in a mode of gratitude and thanksgiving right now.”

And while Katie is now pursuing a joint M.D./Ph.D at Johns Hopkins University, the She’s the First spirit lives on at Notre Dame with some exciting fundraising projects for girls’ sponsorships underway for the 2010-2011 school year! She’s The First Campus Activities Coordinator Monica Townsend, a rising junior at Notre Dame, gave us a heads up on the creativity to come:

Monica hopes to sponsor a girl’s college education for the year by reserving a portion of the money raised at each of her Junior Class Philanthropy Committee’s planned events (including a dodgeball tournament, a dance, and even a 5k run!). Monica is additionally looking into a sponsorship that will allow students to email with the girls abroad in order “to raise awareness that a few fun events can give someone a world away, a college opportunity like we have here at Notre Dame.”

And while nothing has been written in stone yet for Monica’s spring semester, she plans on having a full-on She’s The First benefit event—perhaps a dorm competition to see who can raise the most money. Students at Notre Dame have sponsored two girls already!

Inspired by this story? We are introducing an official outreach program for high schools and universities this fall, called She’s the First*{Campus}. Want to be a pilot school? Email tammy@shesthefirst.org for more info!

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Two 10-Year-Olds Who Can Change the World

Justis gives us an update about being a sponsor for a girl in the Haiti Outreach Program. He's holding his certificate for supporting Magdaline!

Justis updates us on being a sponsor for a girl, Magdaline, in the Haiti Outreach Program.

Remember Justis, who captured our hearts when he showed even 10-year-old American boys are jumping aboard to support girls’ education worldwide? He is fundraising for Haiti relief efforts at school and decided to sponsor a girl in the Haiti Outreach Program through She’s the First. Read his original blog post here.

The sponsorship coordinator at the Haiti Outreach Program, Sonya, mailed Justis a photo of the girl in the school, so he can visualize the impact of his donation. We asked Justis to blog about what being a sponsor is like for him. Here’s what he said:

Hi this is Justis with an update. I just received my sponsorship certificate from Give Haiti Hope for Magdaline Philistin. Magdaline is a ten year girl who would like to be a doctor when she grows up. She attends Ecole Saint Michel, a primary school in Boucan-Carre, Haiti.

I hope that I can write her in the future. I’d like to ask her if she was affected by the earthquake and if she has any siblings. I thought these were a few things she might want to know about me, I’m ten years old too. Some of my hobbies are playing guitar and video games, and sometimes I like to ride my bike. I want to be a lawyer.

I’d like to visit Haiti one day to meet Magdaline and my family there. Mom says maybe next summer. I’ll be back soon with more updates!

Justis

Justis, we want to go to Haiti with you!

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Introducing Grace: 3rd Student Sponsored by GIRLS WHO ROCK

Grace Lyimo -- excited to "meet" her co-sponsors from GIRLS WHO ROCK. Leave a message! p.s. her bday is July 28th!

Grace Lyimo -- she's excited to "meet" her co-sponsors from GIRLS WHO ROCK. Leave a message! p.s. her bday is July 28th!

GIRLS WHO ROCK exceeded our expectations as a benefit for She’s the First — we not only raised enough to sponsor Elizabeth David in AfricAid’s Kisa Project, but also Happiness Monyo and Grace Lyimo, who we are proud to introduce you to now! Remember that the wonderful thing about hosting GIRLS WHO ROCK during Internet Week New York was that this sponsorship program is truly Internet-infused. We will receive emails from the girls monthly, and by posting their letters to She’s the First, we enable you to leave comments, which we then forward to them. Please ask questions and share encouragement!

I am very happy to have you, really it so amazing!
I am Grace Lyimo, a student of Arusha Secondary School, form five, taking history, geography and economics. I like singing, dancing, charting, and making new friends who we can share ideas. Really I am very happy to have you and may I pleas know your name? I just know only two of you, who are Ashley and Kat DeLuna. I do like the song of Kat DeLuna very much so I fell like fly to know that she is one among you. Hope we will going to know much about each other. I like you photo very much please send more to us. I have to sign out hope we will communicate later.

[Editor's Note: Minor spelling and grammar edits made. But Grace's words in tact!]
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Student Spotlight: Lily, age 16, India

Shreya, She's the First guest blogger -- spending her summer at the Shanti Bhavan school in India!

by Shreya, She's the First guest blogger & a Shanti Bhavan School summer volunteer in India

On a balmy Thursday afternoon, I spoke with Grade 12′s Lily Mary Thomas, one of the school’s most coveted soccer players, about her family, life at Shanti Bhavan, and her ambitions for the future.  What she revealed to me was nothing short of emotional and inspirational.  Her story is a testament to the hope and positivity that Shanti Bhavan instills in all its children.

Lily, aged 16, is one of 4 children, born to impoverished parents in Maryapura, a village near Bangalore. Maryapura’s villagers, like many others in rural India, have been plagued by severe addiction to drugs and alcohol.  And like in several other villages across the country, nuns administer education, healthcare, sanitation, and other essentials in the village, dedicating their lives to improving living conditions in these regions.

It was one such nun who had suggested Lily as a potential candidate to Shanti Bhavan’s recruitment team when she was four years old.  “I was doing really well in the school run by the nuns,” she explains.

Here are some snippets of our conversation:

Shreya interviews Lily, a senior at the Shanti Bhavan School (always seeking co-sponsors!)

Shreya interviews Lily, a senior at the Shanti Bhavan School (which is always seeking co-sponsors!)

Tell me a little bit about your parents.

My parents sell alcohol in our village.  Earlier, they were farmers. My family used to live in a shack made of coconut leaves, and we used to grow vegetables on a small area of land that we owned.  But a fire destroyed our cattle and shack, and my parents couldn’t do anything to save them. The Congress (one of India’s major political parties) helped us and gave us a little amount of money, but it wasn’t enough to improve our situation. So my parents began selling alcohol to the villagers to make money. My mother also works on other people’s farms for Rs. 100 a day (roughly $2 a day).

What about your siblings? Are they in school?

My elder sister studied till 9th grade, and then started working in a factory.  My brother failed his 12th grade exams and is now working in the same factory. We didn’t have enough money to let him sit for the exams again.

What do you think your life would be like if you were not at Shanti Bhavan?

I would probably be washing vessels, and maybe going to a government school if I could afford it.

What do you enjoy most about being at Shanti Bhavan?

Being able to play sports, especially soccer. I love playing sports, and at home, I wouldn’t be allowed to do that.

What are some words your friends use to describe you?

They say I am friendly, and active.

What are your dreams for the future?

Ideally, I want to play soccer for India. But I wont be able to support my family if I depend on sports.  So realistically, I want to study biochemistry.  I am interested in learning how medicine works on people.

Are you nervous about what the future holds in store for you?

Not really, because I know that if I work hard, I will succeed.

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Lily’s life story, and her positive outlook on life, is far from unusual at Shanti Bhavan. Hers is one of many inspirational journeys in which the children blaze through many obstacles to come out stronger, so they represent the best and brightest of tomorrow’s world.

[Editor's Note: To learn more details about Shreya's volunteer experience in India this summer, read her blog!]

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Welcome to the Network, Starfish One by One!

Starfish One by One pairs local Mayan mentors with girls to expand upon traditional education.

Starfish One by One pairs local Mayan mentors with girls to expand upon traditional education.

We’d like to officially welcome a new organization to our network of partners! Starfish One by One awards scholarships to Mayan girls living in rural parts of Guatemala; they’re one of the few organizations working directly with that population. Like She’s the First, Starfish One by One focuses heavily on girls’ education as a solution to poverty. And they share one of our favorite mottoes: “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” (Margaret Mead)

Girls in the Starfish program group together with 15 peers and one local mentor to extend their education beyond the classroom. The mentors teach the girls about reproductive education, personal finance, IT literacy, environmental stewardship, women’s rights and leadership. They also interfere on behalf of the girls whenever a dispute over education might occur. Imagine it this way: If a girl’s family wished to marry her off at 14 for the dowry money, or even the reduced financial burden, the mentor can step in and negotiate with the family to allow the girl to finish her education.We love their multi-layered efforts to ensure education for their girls!

But of course, early marriage isn’t the only factor preventing Mayan girls from receiving quality education. When Tropical Storm Agatha hit Guatemala in May, it caused widespread destruction. Some of the girls of Starfish One by One lost their homes and all of their possessions, while all the girls will be facing the food shortages and general lack of resources that will result from the storm. To combat these hardships, Starfish One by One is raising money to help ease the aftermath of Tropical Storm Agatha. You can see pictures and updates on their blog and if you’d like, donate to the cause though their Giving First page (just indicate that your donation is for the relief fund).

She’s the First is thrilled to partner with an organization so keen on ensuring girls’ education, and we know you love the cause, too! So check out Starfish One by One’s site, and see their listing in our directory. And if you’re inspired, you can help sponsor a Mayan girl’s mentorship!

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