Channel One Viewers: Want to Be Jancy’s Pen Pal?

In classrooms across the country, CBS’ Channel One News aired a segment about She’s the First for Women’s History Month! Tammy Tibbetts talked about how students who don’t have dollars to donate can still make an impact by corresponding with the girls we sponsor. Emails are pouring in from students asking where they can begin…it starts here!

To refresh your memory, here is the segment, framed by Jancy’s story and how education transformed her life:

Now here is part of an essay Jancy wrote about her life in India. It was published in The Huffington Post today! This is your task, Channel One viewers! Read Jancy’s story and then in the comments of this blog post, write back with a question, and tell her what your dream is, what your school day is like, or what your family is like. We will send her your notes, publish her response, and then email you when you can leave your next round of comments. Maybe a new friendship will form!

My name is Jancy. I am 16. My mom is a single parent and I have two older brothers. I was born in a small village in the Hassan district of the Karnataka state, in India.

When I was three and a half, I joined Shanti Bhavan, a non-secular residential school for socially and economically disadvantaged children. Shanti Bhavan is a unique institution, where we are given not only a quality education, but taught globally shared values, such as humility, generosity, and acceptance. Joining Shanti Bhavan was perhaps the most significant, life-changing event in my life.

I have stayed at Shanti Bhavan for almost 13 years now, and it is like my second home. Here, I have the biggest family ever; we are all bound by our love for one another. There is something about Shanti Bhavan that is special — almost divine — and difficult to express in words.

Shanti Bhavan is a part of me. Sometimes, I wonder how I am going to handle it when I wake up one morning and realize I have graduated.

After all, it is here that I have learned everything from the alphabets in the English language to the literature of Shakespeare. It is here that I received my first toothbrush, my first warm bed, and my first shampoo. It is where I tasted pancakes for the first time.

All of the students at school are taken care of by our housemothers. Our teaching staff is comprised of Indian teachers, as well as volunteers from various parts of the world and all walks of life, who greatly enrich our education and broaden our perspectives.

We are taught from a very early age not to discriminate against one another. We respect all religions and are free to practice our own. We have the freedom to voice our own opinions. And, furthermore, we are asked to have opinions on world issues.

I am almost a senior now, and grateful to everyone at Shanti Bhavan who continues to inspire me each day to move forward. I am studying Accounting, Economics, and Commerce and preparing to take the ISC exam next year, considered among the most challenging in India.

To me, education is the key to the many doors I want to open. I want to be the first girl in my family to go to college. I want to get my Master’s degree. I want to combine the fields of business and fashion someday. I want to find success to improve the status of my family. I want to continue the Shanti Bhavan dream.

Ready, set, comment! :)

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  • Carlie

    I would like to be pin pals with someone. How old do i have to be to do it? I’m only 13.

    • http://shesthefirst Vanessa

      I really would like to be a pen pal to someone in another country. Jancy I love school especially art. I wish being able to go to school was alot easier than it really is for the more poor countries other than the United States of America. Please right back as soon as possible I enjoy talking to people.

  • Cheyenne Skye

    Hello Jancy, I think what your doing is AMAZING! My question is what is your favorite class, and whats the thing you love most about living in India? I am also going to be the first girl in my entire family to go to actual college most of the women in my family are beauticians. I am going for business too, i also work at an Indian restaurant in Chesterton, Indiana called the Taj its delicious if you ever visit America you must come eat there, the chefs are from Bangladesh and Nepal they are the most unique and kind hearted men i have ever met. Ive been studying the Hindu religion for two years now, its a lot of reading but its so interesting, i love the whole purpose. When I get out of school I would love to come to India and help all the little kids in Bangladesh that need help, the infomercials make me so sad so its one of my goals to do something about it, Especially since i love your culture and all your people, every Indian Ive ever met in America has always been about education and bettering your life and helping each other i think that’s the way everyone should think. People in America don’t value education,most of the kids are immature and don’t see the importance of schooling until its too late, so ill stop babbling Proud of you! hope everything is well! p.s sorry lot to say, i have terrible organization.

  • Nicole Fredman

    My name is Nicole Fredman. I am from the United States and I seen you on Channel one and was wondering if you wanted to be a pen pal. I am also 16 years old and live with my mom that is also single and I have two half brothers too. I think that is a wonderful opportunity to have such wonderful people there to support you. I am also interested in fashion myself and crime scene investigation. I model and act with a agency here in the United States and I am also taking a fashion class in high school. You picked a wonderful field. I love the fashion world and I hope you will like it too. I have been recieving college letters but I have no idea which one to go to. I am proud to have seen you on the news today in class, we have a lot in common. I hope you enjoy college and I hope you enjoyed school and following your dreams. Hope to hear from you soon.

    Nicole Fredman

  • katie

    Wow you have had amazing opportunity it really makes me happy that you could go to school and get the education you really wanted!

  • Karina

    Hi Jancy! I think it’s cool that you want to have a great education, like me. I want to go to college and study to be a doctor, or maybe video-game designer. Only I’m 13.

  • Laikora Thompson

    Well first how to prnounce my name is Lay-Cora. So, what is your favorite subject in school? I’m in 8th grade. I’m 14. My dream is to become a doctor and maybe travel to areas where they need my help the most. And I want to start a Non-Profit Hospital where they need it. My school day is pretty relaxed.I have only 8 classes. My favorite is Alegebra 1 because I like working on math problems! But once it comes to finals(tests) it becomes hectic. It’s worth it though because I have my friends and family to support me! To me, my family is the world! I have both of my parents striving to make me see the world, and my two younger sisters. So until we talk again, Bye!
    Much Love,
    Laikora Thompson

  • Hannah Tobler

    Your story is so inspiring! My big dream is to help other students with diabilities,i will help them with either bullying problems, homework issues or whatever the may need!
    What are you main subjects that you have to learn?
    - Hannah-

  • Myla Mae Gifford

    Dear Jancy,
    I love the fact that you are the first in your family to go to school, and that you want to got to college. You are brave to have such big dreams. I am adopted so is my little sister. I know how it feels to have something big happen to you like this. Stick with you big dream, and I hope you make it come true.
    -Myla Gifford (15)

  • Shalon Pardee

    Hi, my name is Shalon. I am currently 16 years old. My dream is to grow up and mature to be a helpful part of societies everywhere. I want to be able to travel to places where others would be afraid to go and help the people who truely need it. I like to think that I have a huge heart and that there is room for everyone. I wanted to be a teacher when I was younger but now all I know is that I want to help. Everyone needs a friend and I’d like to be that friend!!! <3 A day in my life would be to get up at 5, prepare my backpack and straighten my hair, then head to the bus. When I get to school I go to the cafetorium and sit with my friends. They are like a second family to me. Then the bell rings. I go to the office and do announcements then continue on to my classes. When school lets out I ruch to my bus and head home. Until now I have always had many pets but lately I had to get rid of most of them. I miss them a lot but I know that wherever they are they are loved. I usually eat dinner in my room alone as I do homework. Sometimes though I am lucky enough to have my boyfriend come over. We usually watch t.v. I would like you to know that your story inspired me. I admire girls who have a desire to achieve their education. I have always been that way myself. If you need anything I'm here for you! What's your favorite color? Can't wait to hear back!! Sp <3 ya!

  • Jordan Mulligan

    Hi=)

    • Jordan Mulligan

      My name is jordan :)

  • Laura Muggio

    Dear Jancy,
    Hi! My name is Laura. I’m 12 years old. I was really touched by your letter. I think that it is good that you get to go to school. I was wondering though, about how many kids go to Shanti Bhavan? Well, I want to tell you about me. One of my big goals in life is to raise dogs. But I have also wanted to make a difference in the world. Yesterday(3-22-2011) on Channel One News when they were talking about this organization Shes The First. I heard what you said and I really wanted to help. I then went to this site shesthefirst.org to become a penpal with you like I heard on Channel One. I read your letter, and like I said earlier, it was touching. I thought that my school day was a lot less interesting than yours but here it is. I tend to wake up at 6:10 and then I go downstairs and eat breakfast(on week days it is cereal…but on the weekends it is usually french toast or waffles or pancakes like you have). Then I go upstairs and wake up my older brother Nick(he is 15 years old) and if it is a Tuesday, Wednesday, or a Thursday the I wake up my younger sister Emily(she is 10). Once I wake them up I get ready- comb my hair, brush my teeth, dress(by the way, my school dosen’t have a school uniform unlike some schools around here). Then I go downstairs and put on my coat(if I need it…like right now), shoes and get my backpack and viola( a viola is a stringed instrument) and we are off! Usually we have to wait at this carpool for Nick(Nick is like scary smart! He goes to a special school for smarter people and he’s only in 9th grade!) Once we drop him off then we(meaning my dad, Emily,and I) go to my school, Marshall Middle School. After my dad drops me off then he takes my sister to daycare. When I get to school we have some free time either in the gym or the cafiteria…depending what day it is. After about half an hour of that we go to either our lockers to get stuff we need or we go to homeroom(1st hour). At homeroom we watch our announcements on the tv(we videotape ours) and then we watch Channel One. After that we go to 2nd hour. I have Pre-Algebra(math). Then we have 3rd hour, I have science. After that, I have gym(Monday, Wednesday and every other Friday) or health(Tuesday, Thursday and every other Friday.) Last semester I had art instead of health. After health we have 5th hour, I have orchestra. Some people have band or choir…or enrichment(enrichment is for the people who quit band, chior, or orchestra and they have to work on school work). After orchestra we finally have lunch! Well…first we have recess. After recess and lunch we have 6th hour, I have language arts(which is like reading, writing, and grammer). I have to say that language arts is basically my favorite subject. After language arts I have 7th hour, history(social studies). I have a really funny teacher for history, named Mr. Dryer, which makes it a lot more fun. Finally! The end of the school day. After school I do different things such as on Mondays I go to dance( I do lyrical and jazz) on Tusedays I go home on the bus and later on I have music lessons for viola. On Wednesdays I either go to the Marshall Public Library or go home on the bus. On Thursdays I go home on the bus. Fridays I go to the library or a friends house. I’ll tell you about my weekends and family in my next letter because I’m sure that you are very busy.
    Sincerely,
    Laura

  • Ashleigh

    I would like to be pen pals withn jancy!!

  • Madison Harmon

    Dear Jancy,
    I think what your doing is so cool and it could help girls around the world so much. I would like to be a pediatrician. Im not sure how hard it is living in a rural area like you. I can only imagine. And I think you have so much going for you(: Please write back soon.
    Thanks and Hugs,
    Madison Harmon (Age12)

  • Desi Webb

    write back with a question, and tell her what your dream is, what your school day is like, or what your family is like.
    Hi Jancy! (:
    My name is Desi, I am 12 years old. I think your letter is very touching. My question is, do you think that Shanti Bhavan will be a part of your life, forever maybe?
    My dream is to have a job that has to do with animals (like a vet. or a marine biologist, or doing the whole scuba diving thing! sounds cool to me!!
    I usually wake up around 6:45-7:00am, do my make-up, brush my hair & teeth, and then get on my clothes. I get something to eat, then head off to the bus stop (but if i’m running late, i’ll just have my mom take me!) then i get to school, learn about math, language arts, science, (i’m in orchestra, a class for stringed instruments; i play the violih.) healthy living, and social studies.
    My family is a great family to be around! I live with my mom and my grandma right now, i have 4 sisters, and one brother, they are all way older than me, so they dont live with me… My weeks are actually busy!
    I’ll tell you more in my next letter to you.
    From,
    Desi <3

  • Melissa

    Dear Jancy,
    I heard about you on Channel One. I thought what you were doing was so great so I figured I just had to learn more! I think it’s really cool how you will be the first in your faMily to get a high school diploma. Have you started lpoking at colleges? Do you know where you would like to go? Is it in India or overseas. What is your best friend’s name. What is your favorite class to take in school. Do you like to read often? If so,. What is your favorite book?

    I’m 13 years old and I live in the USA with my grandmother and six year old brother. I go to a Catholic grade school and I’m in the 8th grade. I really enjoy Social Studies, reading, and writing. I think it would be cool to be the 1rst female president of the USA. I think I will be a lawyer first. I already know a lot about politics and I reslly sant to change the world someday. I love volunteering in my community and I hope one day to so internationally. My othe goal if not to get into politics is to be a journalist for a magazine, newspaper, or other media outlet. I know my dreams are big but I feel like I can accomplish them. Your video really inspired me to help other girls struggling to be “the first” and told me that maybe I could be too. President that is. Bests of luck and I look forward to hearing from you!

    Yours Truly,
    Melissa

    • natasha : )

      I would vote for a woman president. Its about time.

  • jennifer logreco

    channel one inspired me so much i am 12 and have two older brothers i love animals in fact i have been riding horses for the past 5 years it has changed my life today me and my best friend are going to train some ponies i am a first i am the first to ride horses in my family that i no of i wish all the good luck to you

    sinisterly,jen

  • http://Hotmail.com Olivia

    Hi! I think your story is really inspirong, and I would love to be someone’s pen pal. However, I’m only 12. But I would love to get in touch with someone!

  • Bridgette fox

    Hi jancy I am truly amazed that you have gotten so far in your life, its not everyday girls do that stuff. My name is Bridgette fox i am 15 years old and I live in Tennessee (America) i have an older brother, a younger half sister, a younger step-sister, and a older step-brother my parents are both divorced and re-married. I would like to be the first actress in my family when I grow up! I would also like to be the first in my family to do something to help the world and all it’s people. I would like to learn more about your country i would love to be your pen pal!!

    – Bridgette Fox

  • natasha : )

    Shanti Bhavan sounds like an awesome school. I wish my school was like that. I am really interested in forgien cultures, but they teach us very little about it.
    Unlike most middle schools (in my city), we have 9 45-minute periods (5 min. passing periods. we have 2 periods of math & 2 of english & none of free time. oh, and our lockers DON’T HAVE LOCKS! Its called a LOCKer for a reason. Nobody ever takes anyone else’s stuff, though. Items are returned a lot more often.
    I do lots after school. Right now, the big thing in my life is the play Im in. I LOVE acting, & anything done on a stage. We have rehersals on fridays and saturdays for 1 1/2hrs. The actual play isn’t till June, but we already have to have our lines memorized.
    I like a lot of other stuff too, though. Basketball, swimming, raquetball, Dancing (Musical Theatre), MATHCOUNTS (that is so fun. I have so many friends there. I <3 math. I don't care if that makes me a nerd! Which i totally am not.),reading (my way to travel and adventure) and some textile-crafts(sewing, Knitting, frendshipbraclets, or just cutting up tshirts which is surprisngly effective, efficent, & cute)
    I don't know what i want to do when i grow up, but that's ok, cuz Im only 13. I've got time. I do Know I want to make a difference in the world, to leave it better than i found it. There is so much to do! Thats why I like She's the First, because Tammy Tibbets IS making the changes that need to be made. Right now, what enrages me most is sexism & lack of women's rights in some countries. I want to change that asap. Switzerland has the highest standard of liveng and the most women in the government. Do you think that's a couincidence? I don't. (Im not saying men are incompentent. I hope I do Not offend anyone)
    Tell me more about your culture. america is such a mixing pot. Nobody is pure anything. We have a lot of cultures here, but i feel as if I know very little about them. The most predominant is Mexican (1 part of me), because i live relatively close to the border. Its a very colorful culture (literally). One big thing is La Dia De Los Muertos, or The Day of the Dead. It actually lasts for 2 or 3 days. Its not morbid or even Halloween-y. Its a big celebration! Painted skulls and skeleton sculptures are common decorations. the sketeltons are doing a lot of 'alive' activities, like playing a guitar or dancing. gifts are left at the cemetery. Games are played.
    Gee, how are you supposed to read all of your fan mail, Jancy? I wrote more than i thought I would, and a lots of other girls did too. And im sure more letters are being written by the minute!
    Sister in Firstness,
    Natasha :)

    • natasha : )

      I just realized how long that letter is. Oops.

  • natasha : )

    I just want to say I don’t know why they put the subtitles in the video segment because Jancy speaks very clearly.

  • Thomas Jude Kennedy

    Jancy was my junior when I studied at Shanti Bhavan. I have successfully passed out(ours was the first batch)and am now in college. I am proud that my juniors, including her, are doing well. Jancy is a good student. She deserves appreciation for her accomplishments so far. Shanti Bhavan has really shaped many girls lives.

  • Molly Robertson

    I love going to school and learning. So it makes me excited when other girls want to make something of themselves. So many teens in the US don’t appreciate the quality of education they get for paractically nothing. They don’t understand that some students around would give anything to be able to go to school like we do. Jancy, mabye you will change their minds! Keep up the good work!

  • Courtney

    Hi Jancy im Courtney. I heard about you through channel 1 news. I think its awesome the progress you have made and that you are the first in your family to go to college. I’d like to go to but i have no idea what i want to be. I think ive narrowed it down to Pro. landscape photographer, Artist, or own a horse ranch. What do you want to be? We also have some things in common too. I have a single mom but i dont have brothers and sisters. and I was wondering how to get a pen pal.

  • Ruth Ann

    I am willing to be pen pals with someone but I am only 12.